About being invested in fictional ~love~

In this post I shall open up about my embarrassing investment in fictional couples and discuss this concept a bit further, so if:

a) you are a sane person (or)
b) you want to be able to still think of ME as a sane person

you should probably skip this post (here are some cute kittens for you to look at). If you’ve decided to read on: welcome. Now, let’s talk.

It all started when a disturbing piece of news reached my delicate ears: one of the male lead-characters in one of my favorite British detectives decided to leave the show and do something less productive with his life (I’ll admit I’m a bit biased, but come on). Yes, I’m talking about Tom Ward a.k.a “heartthrob Harry” Cunningham of the hit-show Silent Witness. For more than ten years he played this character and for five of them, the writers built up a storyline around him and the female-lead Nikki. Of course the show was not about them, but eh, for me it kind of was. And now he is just gone. All this without even shooting a final episode! I’ve already lost my reputation by referencing a Celine Dion song in one of my previous posts, so I’ll just go ahead and say it: I’m sad! FIVE YEARS PEOPLE. And we did not even get a kiss! Sigh.

I realise I’m probably a bit more invested in this fictional relationship than I should. Maybe it means my mother dropped me on the head when I was a baby or that I shouldn’t have been allowed to watch soap operas as a kid. But is it wrong? Fact is, getting invested in fictional relationships is one of my many guilty pleasures. I did it with Ron and Hermione, I cried when Jim & Pam FINALLY got married (Jim looking into the camera just after they got married on the boat – TEARS ALL OVER), I’m still rooting for Chuck and Blair, I pined for Bob and Charlotte and I really wanted Luke and Lorelai to be together. Why do I “invest” in these relationships? Because it is fun! One problem though, is that it’s only fun for as long as it lasts. When an actor decides to leave a show or when a book comes to an end, the stories are gone and you’re the one left with all the feelings you “invested”.

Fortunately for “us people”, there is something like the internet! After finding out about Harry and doing a quick google-session, I came to the conclusion that I’m not the only one with these kind of feelings. If you have a favorite pairing, just try searching them on youtube. Chances are there is a video out there with a compilation of their “best moments”, all accompanied by a very dramatic soundtrack (turns out “Far Away” by Nickelback is a favorite of many and most of Miley Cyrus’ songs are PERFECT for this). Watch and marvel! Apparantly there are even people who decide to write (or rewrite) about their favorite fictional couples themselves. Thousands of stories about this magical world, all written by fans. I’ll admit I once spent a whole afternoon reading a Harry Potter fanfiction about Draco and Hermoine, which was suprisingly good (and perfectly PG13)! Because I should note that I DO draw the line at weird fanfiction or drawings. No disturbing sex scenes s’il vous plaît! If I wanted that I would just buy 30 shades of grey. I’m weird, but not THAT weird. (Yes, that does exist, my innocent grashopper. After all, it’s still the internet. If you want nightmares, take a look at this.) (hey, I warned you)

Oh well. I’ll probably miss my favorite couple when the new season of Silent Witness starts and yes, I’ll be a bit sad and therefore will replay this youtube video a few times, but I’ll be fine. As long as I don’t cry myself to sleep over it every night, I don’t consider it to be an unhealthy thing nor a “wrong investment”. It may suprise you after reading this post, but I am realistic enough to acknowledge my loss and move on ;-) (eventually)

Did your mother drop you as a baby? I.e. do you have a fictional couple in which you “invest”?

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9 Responses to About being invested in fictional ~love~

  1. Oh honey, do you have an hour? I love love love Jim&Pam forever, Ron&Hermione, House&Cuddy, and I’m currently rooting for Glee’s Sam & Brittany and Rachel & Sexy Sophomore to get together. I don’t know why. I just do.

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    Ashley

    Oh yesssss, rachel & sexy sophmore…!

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  2. Charley says:

    Haha, ik dacht ook dat ik de enige was met dit soort ‘gevoelens’. Chuck en Blair, Ryan en Marissa…

    Ik vind je blog echt leuk nu zo in het Engels (daarvoor ook al hoor)! Leuk ook zo met die collages :)

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    Ashley

    The OC heb ik echt nooit gezien, misschien moet ik dat toch eens kijken (als ik niets beters te doen heb, want het is vast verslavend, haha). Bedankt voor je compliment, heel leuk om te horen! :)

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  3. Natalina says:

    Ugh, I hate that feeling of emptiness when a story is over!! I already have those feelings during a movie, so when it’s a series like GG, the OC or read a book, it only gets amplified! What’s a girl to do then? Eat chocolate? Go to yoga? Buy those sky high heals? Nothing can fill the void ;) lmao!

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    Ashley

    lol, totally know what you mean!

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  4. Merel says:

    HARRY & NIKKI HARRY & NIKKI! Jaa, dit was ook mijn droomkoppel… Ik ben blij dat ik niet de enige nerd ben die hier om kan treuren. Thanks voor de post! Haha.

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    Ashley

    Yay, iemand die weet waar ik het over heb! :D

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  5. Charlotte says:

    Je bent écht niet alleen! Chuck & Blair indeed (maar nu weten we hoe dat afgelopen is!), maar ook Castle & Beckett, al van in ‘t begin Meredith & McDreamy en Bones & Booth ook wel. En ja, Lorelai en Luke. *sigh*

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